{ "id": 156, "date": "2020-09-17T16:27:21", "date_gmt": "2020-09-17T14:27:21", "guid": { "rendered": "https:\/\/genderbalancecontent.womeninnews.org\/?post_type=chapter_2&p=156" }, "modified": "2021-06-29T16:34:56", "modified_gmt": "2021-06-29T14:34:56", "slug": "the-language-we-use", "status": "publish", "type": "chapter_2", "link": "https:\/\/genderbalancecontent.womeninnews.org\/vi\/?chapter_2=the-language-we-use", "title": { "rendered": "3. Kh\u00f4ng b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng trong c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn" }, "content": { "rendered": "

Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh trong c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 n\u1eef gi\u1edbi, t\u1eeb ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb cho t\u1edbi h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e1c vai tr\u00f2 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh:<\/strong> Ch\u00fang ta nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0o c\u00e1c vai tr\u00f2 \u2018truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng\u2019 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef thay v\u00ec nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady khi g\u1ecdi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u00e0 v\u1ee3, l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 CEO, ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb gia, lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 ho\u1eb7c nh\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng theo \u0111\u00fang c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, ch\u1ee9c danh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u00e0 'ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f4ng s\u1edf' n\u1ebfu c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 con v\u00e0 v\u1eabn \u0111i l\u00e0m. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb ch\u00fang ta s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng:<\/strong> M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i l\u1edbn l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecf s\u00f3t nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ch\u1ec9 n\u1eef gi\u1edbi trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. V\u00ed d\u1ee5: lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi (mankind). Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng g\u1eafn gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u00e0o ch\u1ee9c danh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, v\u00ed d\u1ee5: ch\u1ee7 t\u1ecbch (chairman) hay n\u1eef ch\u1ee7 t\u1ecbch (chairwoman); c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t (policeman) ho\u1eb7c n\u1eef c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t (policewoman). Ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta duy tr\u00ec c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng vi\u00eac th\u00eam c\u00e1c t\u1eeb ng\u1eef ch\u1ec9 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ch\u1ee9c danh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c trung gian gi\u1eefa hai gi\u1edbi, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 'nam y t\u00e1' (male nurse) ho\u1eb7c 'lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 n\u1eef' (lady lawyer).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef:<\/strong> Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ee5t r\u00e8, y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, d\u1ec5 x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng, d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng, h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 tin, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd ho\u1eb7c gi\u00e0u l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n. Ch\u00fang ta t\u1eadp trung \u00e1nh nh\u00ecn r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh v\u00e0 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Khi h\u1ecd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ch\u00fang ta m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng theo nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. V\u00ed d\u1ee5: thay v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb g\u1ecdi h\u00e1ch d\u1ecbch; hay thay v\u00ec g\u1ecdi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i n\u00f3i h\u00f9ng h\u1ed3n ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o, ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00f3i tai hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 nghe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan kh\u00f4ng b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng:<\/strong>Tr\u00ean c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng gi\u1eefa ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef v\u00e0 nam gi\u1edbi. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1eady qua nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0:<\/p>\n\n\n\n